Ms. Edna is feisty - which, trust me, I love. I've had the opportunity to visit her several times since we last met and she always gets me laughing with her unapologetic opinions and emotion. I am so glad to have seen this side of her often since on our first day, she was feeling a little 'under the weather'.
Ms. Edna was just entering her room the first time we met; I introduced myself and tried my best to see if she was up for talking. I always want my conversations with people to be comfortable and I understand not necessarily feeling up to an interview from someone I've never met.
Megan, the Activities Director and wonderful person aiding me in this project, helped start the conversation as she helped guide Ms. Edna towards the photographs in her room.
Why do you have pictures in your room do you think?
[confused] “Do I? I don’t think I do.”
Miss Edna, look at these – see your photos? Why do you think you keep these photos?
“Is this my room?”
This is your room.
“I don’t know how long they’ve been there.”
Miss Edna suddenly spots a photo of her husband. You see her eyes brighten up and she sits up straighter. She finally recognizes something familiar to her.
"…Because that’s our wedding day. Can’t you see? That’s my husband."
You have a lot of pictures of your husband.
“Because we loved each other!”